The Glam Life

FILTHY WOMEN DEFINED!!

2009-08-18T20:17:00.000-07:00

QUESTION: WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BTWN A HOE, SLUT, AND A WHORE . . . & IF (S)HE IS A NYMPHO DOES IT STILL COUNT??

ANSWER:

HOE (n): one who has sex with complete disregard for his/her health, safetly, personal well being and that of his/her partners - one who engages in sexual behaviors that are EXTREMELY deviant from the norm, and who has sex for reasons other than that he/she genuinely wants to (ie, fcuking for money, companionship, for fear of being left, to climb social ladders, etc), one who feels the need to engage in sex to please others or be accepted, one who succombs to sex out of peer pressure and/or someone has uncanny numbers of sexual partners lol

SLUT (n): simply put, a slut has sex with a lot of people - whenever, wherever, whatever! A slut is slightly better than a hoe because her motives are pure - she just wants to get a nut off! A slut aims to please & loves to be pleased. She is not necessarily reckless in her behavior and may be very health & safety conscious. Guys generally find sluts to be a lot of fun, but it's hard to wife a slut because everyone has hit already.

WHORE (n): a whore is basically a hoe combined with a slut - with a higher IQ and one simple motive: MONEY. Lil Wayne made the following reference to whores: 'You catch my girl's legs open, better smash that. Dont be surprised if she ask where da cash at!'. Whores range from regular chicks who wont fcuk for free, to escorts, to flat out prostitutes. Gotta love the whores!

NYMPHO (n): derived from nymphomaniac - a woman with abnormal sexual desires. Nymphos are NOT necessarily hoes/sluts/whores. And if they are it is not always by choice. They can avoid falling in these categories by getting psychological help, or limiting their sexual acts to one or a select group of people. Nymphomania is an actual disorder and we cannot hold these people 100% accountable for their actions!

Hope this was informative! Agree? Disagree? Questions? Comments?

IF YOU'RE THIRSTY & U KNO IT CLAP YOUR HANDS!!

2009-08-17T09:02:00.000-07:00

YOU KNOW YOU ARE THIRSTY WHEN:

15. You are not only sexin the main attraction, but the extras and the extras for the extras! lol *DRINK*

14. You do Black Mens, DUBS, Maxim, etc for 'exposure' & don't get paid a cent.

13. You parkin lot pimp all night to see who's sittin on 24s. *SMH & DRINK*

12. You go all out of your way when driving to follow that guy with the nice car & hope he tries to holla *TAKE A SIP*

11. You harvest celeb sperm from a used condom hoping to get preggers *DRINK UP*

10. You fly yourself out to meet guys u met online! LOL. Girl u are spending your hard earned cash to get effed!? *DRINK*

9. You walk past a celeb 3+ times in the club hoping he will notice you. HE DIDN'T! *DRINK*

8. You are following the entire sports/music industry and reply to ever tweet - yet you know none of them personally! *DRINK*

7. You run through a click hoping one of them will wife you or at least nut in you. GROSS! U R A JOKE! *DRINK*

6. You quit your job to gold dig, LMAO! *DRINK*

5. You appear on your city's version of www.ATLPICS.net more than once a week. *DRINK*

4. You know where all the studios are - even to rappers who haven't blown up yet. *DRAANNNKK*

3. You sneak pictures of men and twitpic them to let everyone know you're effing *TAKE 2 SIPS FOR THAT*

2. You haven't dated a guy outside of the industry since ... EVER! *CHUG A LUG*

1. You ALWAYS think someone is hating on you cause they called you a groupie?! NO HATE! YOU ARE A GROUPIE!

TAKE A SIP!

WE SEE YOU ... HI, HATER!!

2009-08-14T17:07:00.000-07:00

E-scuze me, I see you!

SOOOOOOOO, being an anonymous hater via blogs is apparently sexy as HELL until you realize that the persons you are hating on have a blog tracker! ((Dayummmmm)) and then all of a sudden, you aren't sexy anymore, you look like a teenager!

(Click to see original comments)

http://socialiteslife-nina.blogspot.com/2009/08/shady.html#comments

And in the midst of this you:

1. Admitted to wearing Forever 21 & Charlotte Russe (DREADFUL)

2. GAVE PROPS to the person you were hating on (Where they do that) and

3. Upped their VIP access in the clubs, Designer fashions, and the way they pop bottles LOL

SOOOOO at the end of the day, YOU LOOK DUMB.

And to add insult to injury, u suggest that with all 31 of your followers that u could somehow send some 'spotlight' over to Mimi?

Girl Lay BACK and let's show u how this works:

1. 'MODELS' are only models if they get paid and people know who they are. YOU are not a model. Hit me if u want to be and I'll make some calls! (Yes, REALLY!)

2. If u want me and Nina to dig into our Goodwill pile and toss you some Lanvin & Blumarine, we can make that happen. JUST ASK!

3. We can also teach you how to go to school, graduate, get a career & conduct yourself as a lady - which is VERY in style if u didnt know! Again, ASK!

It's 2009 and hating is STILL not cute! You dont have to like everything anyone does - but to go on an anonymous blogger tirade is never sexy and makes u look extremely boring and under accomplished! kk

MORAL: Hating is ugly and ugly doesn't photograph well. For the sake of your 'career', stop!

LOUIS V FAILED - PRADA FOLLOWED! FAIL!

2009-08-13T13:57:00.000-07:00

PRADA FALL 2009 READY TO WEAR COLLECTION

SAY 'NO' TO WHITE GIRLS WITH NAPPY HAIR!!

THE FOLLOWING IMAGES ARE FROM PRADA'S FALL 2009 READY TO WEAR COLLECTION.

JUST NOT CUTE.

THE ACTUAL CLOTHING WAS DECENT THO, SO IT WAS A TOTAL FAIL.

BUT THE HAIR. WTF?! ONE WORD: PERM

AND BIG SHOUT OUT TO THE LADY BELOW WHO THOUGHT SHE COULD PULL OFF THAT OUTFIT . . .

SHE CLEARLY TOOK 'READY 2 WEAR' WAY TOO LITERALLY. SHE WAS NOT READY TO WEAR THAT ISH!!

NOT A GOOD LOOK!!

IM JUST SAYIN . . .

OPINIONS?! WHAT DO U GUYS THINK??

MORE BASIC-NESS FROM THE ATL HOUSEWIVES

2009-08-13T07:10:00.001-07:00

"CLOSE UR LEGS TO MARRIED MEN!!!" - NeNe Leaks

WELP! That aint happenin!!

Ok, Kim pulls up stuntin in a Bentley Coupe and just like every OTHER elaborate thing we've ever seen on the Real Housewives of Atlanta, we find out it aint hers!!

The man behind the bentley is former NBA player Gerald Wilkins and it's NO SURPRISE to us that he's been married for 20 years!!!!

The REAL question is ... WHY didnt he buy Kim a new wig instead???

Honestly, though - I'm not mad at her hustle. IF you're going to play the side chick at least play your position in a Bentley!

I'm just sayin . . .

And HERE is the simp. Let's hope wifey sees this blog and takes HALF!

Beyonce Crosses Over. LITERALLY!!!!!

2009-08-13T06:59:00.000-07:00

BEYONCE PLAYS A LSEBIAN IN UPCOMING FILM!!

According to MTO, Beyonce has agreed to star in the film 'Tipping the Velvet' about a lesbian love affair - and word on the streets is, there are MULTIPLE love scenes!! Maybe Jay Z feels a lil bit more secure with Bey rubbing up on a lady love than that Idris Elba guy??

Hmmmm. Not to sure how I'd feel about doing girl on girl but one thing's for sure! I'm not mad at the chick for getting her money!!

Check out the scene below from a British adaption of the movie - Just to get an idea of what's in store! ;)

UNBEWEAVABLE!!! BEYONCE TAKES IT ALLL OFFF!!

2009-08-12T10:13:00.000-07:00

A RARE LOOK AT BEYONCE

Now, us glamour girls KNOW we love us some weave!!

Especially ME! And that's coming from a girl with a head full of good hair, lol! Boys are always talking about how much better girls look natural, etc etc etc ... WELL!

Here's some flix of Queen Bey herself without the lacefronts/tracks!

Now we must admit she looks DAMN GOOD!!! Buuuut let's keep it honest. If she looked like this 100% of the time, she would not be making the huge buzz that she is now. & frankly, if we all took out our weaves, neither would we lol.

GO BEY!! LOOKIN GREAT!

*NOTE: A licensed cosmetologist commented that in the pics at the top of the blog Beyonce was still wearing a lacefront, just a far less dramatic one. Hating?? I'm not sure. do you guys think??

DWIGHT HOWARD SHOWS IT ALL!!!!!

2009-08-12T10:04:00.000-07:00

Here's one from the groupie files!!

Got these pics courtesy of MTO!

Unfortunately, they are being some haters and not telling the story behind the flix! Pfffff.

Do ladies, is it him or not?! Sure does look a lot like Dwight Howard ... & looks like he might be working with a hook! LOL

He has neither confirmed nor denied that this penis belongs to him so for now it's just speculation! As for me, I'm not particularly impressed if it is him! But I'm not particularly disappointed either.

Anyway, for the sake of bitchiness I hope it IS Mr. Howard cause all that positivity he pretends to deliver was getting a lil annoying, lol.

Ladies, whatdya think??? Is it him?! Yay or Nay!?

EXCLUSIVE!!! VH1's DANGER IS BROKE!!!

2009-08-11T08:46:00.001-07:00

EXCLUSIVE!!!!

SO by now we all know that For the Love of Ray J's 'Danger' is about 6 months pregnant by fiance Gabe Cannon, the UNEMPLOYED brother of Nick Cannon.

Word on the streets is that the couple has hit hard times because of Danger's inability to get bookings since her pregnancy. HAHA! We find it hilarious that DANGER was the bread winner of this relationship. And to add insult to injury, Nick & Mariah disapprove of the relationship and refuse to help the couple pay for the wedding!

A Reliable Source has told us exclusively that Danger was 'begging' for them to get her a booking in Miami this past weekend so that she could 'make a few bucks to get her through'!

SAD! Of course the promoters laughed her off saying that NOONE wants their event hosted by a pregnant reality star (except maybe the people who booked her in the Hamptons - see pic).

DANGER IS OFFICIALLY WASHED UP!! HOT MESS!!

BASIC HOUSEWIVES OF ATLANTA

2009-08-11T06:02:00.000-07:00

EVICTEEEEEDDD!!!

Yes, we've heard it happened to Nene & Sherea . . . now the uppity Miss Lisa Wu Hartwell & her semi-gayish former football player hubby Ed recently rushed out of the multimillion dollar before they were put out Not to mention, the house is on sale for a million dollars less than it's worth.

Now you know I'm laughing over her but It's actually SAD. SAD that Bravo couldn't find cast of 5 or 6 black women in Atlanta who could actually afford their homes & lifestyles. Like Sheree for example. We all saw her settlement - FAR under a milli - but she starts the season off throwing lavish parties!? FAIL!

Now don't get me wrong - I LOVE the show & I WILL continue to watch - but I'm sure Bravo coulda found some ACTUALLY rich women in Atlanta, they KNOW they are exploiting the hell out of those women!

Siiiigh. Anything to make a buck tho.

Now back to regularly scheduled programming . . .

Louis Vuitton Fall 2009 Collection

2009-08-10T08:58:00.000-07:00

LV FALL 2009 SHOE COLLECTION

TWO WORDS: HATED IT!!

THESE SHOES ARE THE QUINTESSENTIAL DEPICTION OF A FAIL. NOT ONLY ARE THEY A TOTAL EYE SORE, THEY ALSO LOOK IMPRACTICAL AND KINDA PAINFUL.

OK THE BOOTS ARE DECENT. NOT GOOD. DECENT.

2 POINTS FOR CREATIVITY. ALTHOUGH THEY DO NEED SEEM TO BE IN LINE WITH ANY OF THE TRENDS THAT ARE HOT THIS FALL SO I'D HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO PAIR THEM WITH.

TOTALLY DISAPPOINTED. AM I ALONE ON THIS ONE??

CLICK LINK TO SEE THE ENTIRE COLLECTION:

http://obsessedwithshoes.com/post/Louis-Vuitton-Fall-2009-Shoe-Collection.aspx

THE BAGS ON THE OTHER HAND WERE FABULOUS!!

CLICK LINK TO SEE THE ENTIRE COLLECTION:

http://thatsafabuloushandbag.com/post/Louis-Vuitton-Fall-2009-Handbag-Collection.aspx

STILL DONT HAVE THAT BEACH BODY??

2009-08-09T13:07:00.000-07:00

FITNESS FOR THE FABULOUS

Let's keep it real, ladies! I KNOW I'm not the only one who crash diets the week before I hit the beach! Us girls know we are pros at pretending we look that good year round! LOL

But the real question is: Why AREN'T we keeping our bodies in consistent good shape?! Honestly, I'd be easier to hit the gym on a consistent basis and not have to worry about crashing to look great for that party!

I strongly recommend that we all get at the bare minimum 30 minutes of exercise 5 days a week ... but since I have no clue what I'm talking about, I suggest you all check out www.DFreemansFitness.com and get acquainted with someone who does!!

Not only is the site's owner David Freeman CERTIFIED GRADE A Man Candy, he really knows what he's doin. And better yet, he video blogs which we LOVE.

AND he's going to send us tips on how to grow a bigger booty - the NATURAL way! Which we all are dying to do! lol

Just check out the befores & afters. It's NEVER too late to get in the best shape of your life!!

SPLITSVILLE FOR TI & TINY?? HOPEFULLY!!!

2009-08-08T18:51:00.001-07:00

Now USUALLY this is a Hater-Free Zone but let's be honest . . . I'd give my right knee cap to see T.I. ditch Tiny!!

I dont know what it is about her. Maybe it's the fact that she could stunt double for Miss Piggy. Maybe it's her complete lack of style (see pic to your left). Maybe she's just ghetto. Maybe it's the fact that she DESPERATELY needs to see the inside of a tanning bed or that she speaks as tho she dropped out of grammar school. I DUNNO!

But whatever it is just grinds my gears and to see her caked up with the most eligible bachelor in the game!

I LOVE celeb couples when both parties are hot: Angelina & Brad. Beyonce & Jay Z. Kim & Reggie. J Lo & Diddy (ok obviously the last two relationships are a FAIL lol). Something about Tiny & T.I. just seems so mismatched to me!!

Well word on the streets was the Money Mayweather was tryna holla while Tip was in jail and there was a lot of tension. Tiny 'cleared up the rumors' but we all know that don't mean ishhhh lol. So we'll see how this one plays out.

*keeps fingers crossed*

FASHIONISTAS . . . STYLE ME FABULOUS! :)

2009-08-07T14:58:00.000-07:00

OK, GIRLIE GIRLS ... LET'S SEE WHAT YA GOT!!

Ok everyone of my girls is fabulous but has a totally different eye for style!!

I just got a new 'Barbie' bag from Patricia Field & booties from Betsey Johnson ... & I want all of your opinions on what to wear with em!!

Try to come up with the most fabulous look so I can be inspired when I shop for things to wear with it :)

I'm excited to see the kinda looks u girls come up with!! XO

Feel Free to post pics, etc but plain descriptions are fine too!

LOVE THIS LOOK!! (Submitted by @LootyLove)

And here is a COMPLETELY different look!! LOVE the diversity!

AND HERE IS A HIP, CHIC DAY LOOK FROM @EVERY1LOVESNINA!

SHE'S A NICE GIRL BUT HER SHOE GAME'S MEAN!

2009-08-06T19:37:00.000-07:00

(my picture quality is weak so I included a stock photo as well)

STILL not over booties! Nope, not never :)

And I'm NEVER too old for gifts!! Check out my new L.A.M.B. Open Toe boots ... Courtesy of my mommy dearest (yes, Im still spoiled - dont hate! lol)!

They retail for $469 on www.ShopBop.com but are sold out there. The arch is insane & they are a complete bitch to walk in but im 5'7 in em so im not complainin!! lol

Give your opinions on the shoes and dont forget to make outfit suggestions!!

I know u'r all fashionably retarded and could come out with some great looks for me! :)

THANKS MOMMY!!

IS MARBURY TRYING TO COME OUT THE CLOSET?!

2009-08-06T13:01:00.000-07:00

"He used to be so normal"

Dude! For the sake of this man's sanity I hope he was either tricked into doing these vids or is secretly being heavily paid!!

WTF! We all go thru corny shit sumtimes but DAMN! We already forgave him for crying & being caressed by a man but THIS is going too far!

Now whether or not he was actually dancing to Aqua or not is SO irrelevant cause either way, this is gay as hell!

Dont believe me? Watch for yourself!

ANOTHER NUDE TEEN CELEB!!! ZZZZZZzzzzzz

2009-08-06T10:43:00.001-07:00

VANESSA HUDGENS TAKES IT ALLLL OFF!!!

Ok, Im not going to spend too much time on this cause realistically, noone cares!! Honestly, I wanna focus less on Mizz Nessa & more on her actions.

click here to see the full set:

http://www.dailypasses.net/2009/08/vannessa-hudgens-from-high-school.html

I LOVE how all of these stars claim 'their EX sent them to the media'.

Firstly, we know that these pics were leaked purposely, ok?? Let's keep it 100, u guys! She was gridlocked into a Disney career, wanted to expand & felt that this was the only option.

I'm not mad at her! Hey, it's worked before (Miley Cyrus, Prancer, Kim Kardashian, etc). Whatever you gotta do to pay the bills, right?? I just hope it doesn't backfire because if she doesnt turn into the sex symbol she's hoping to become, she's obliterated her High School Musical career.

*keeps fingers crossed for Nessa*

Ladies, fellas - how do you feel about this? Is it ok to show the goodies if it kickstarts or accelerates your career? Would you do it??

THIRSTY THURSDAY: MAN CANDY EDITION!!!

2009-08-06T06:33:00.000-07:00

WHO is the sexiest Black Man in the NFL??

NOTE: I tried to find two caramel skinned brothas & two darker guys - I'm sorry, Im not into the Drake's or Shamar's but if you are, feel free to make a suggestion for NEXT week's poll! :)

So I see that Reggie Bush is in the lead in the 'Sexy Man' Poll. Yes, the brotha is fine, but that leads me to believe that all of you who voted for him are clearly unaware of how these other men look, lol!

So without further ado, I give to you THE MAN CANDY:

REGGIE BUSH - AKA - OH, GOT DAAMMMNN

DARREN SHARPER - AKA - OH, SWEET LORD JESUS

DEVIN THOMAS - AKA - JAIL BAIT

T.O. - AKA - Y'ALL AINT LIKE ME TIL THE SHOW

BOOK OF THE MONTH: Zadie Smith - On Beauty

2009-08-05T22:30:00.000-07:00

I love to read & frankly don't understand anyone who doesnt! Seriously, you guys - people in my demographic don't read enough. So in my 'I can make a difference' mode, I've decided to host a book club and along with any willing participants read and review one novel per month.

Now whether it's because I truly love great fiction or because I'm spending a summer with my mum who doesn't have a television in her home (no, seriously), I stumbled upon this novel and read it almost without pause.

In lieu of giving my own personal synopsis of the novel, here is a link to a really great review of the story:

http://dir.salon.com/story/books/review/2005/10/01/smith/index.html

I absolutely loved it! It was a very easy read yet still intellectually engaging. I would suggest this novel to any of my readers and I hope that you enjoy it as much as I did.

Feel free to share your thoughts on it or give suggestions for future novels!

Upcoming Read: 'a mercy' by Toni Morrison)

CHRIS ROCK'S GOOD HAIR: THE OFFICIAL TRAILOR

2009-08-05T14:05:00.001-07:00

I am super excited to see this movie!! Since I branded and launched my own personal line of hair extensions, we ALLL know im addicted! As a mixed girl with 'good hair' who stilll loves the extensions and hair pieces, I think this is going to be an excellent movie and an eye opener for men!!

CHECK IT OUT!

The BREAK UP Blog: For MEN & WOMEN

2009-08-05T12:08:00.000-07:00

Going through a messy breakup? Yep. It happens to the best of us. Fortunately tho, once we stop focusing on the losers who wronged us, we can start appreciating the real men who will take their place!

The following is a blog I wrote after a bad break up & meeting a guy who made him nothing more than a bad memory. Anyone who's experienced true heartache can relate!

LOVE at first sight only takes an instant. It may not be stable or secure like true love, but it's definitely enough to make a woman wanna look forward & not back. A woman is but so strong; she can only shed so many tears. Nearly every man has had a girl who gave him her all ... & he gave her heartache in return.

Men tend to get 'comfortable' & start messing up ... but through hell & high water a good woman will stick by her man. She forgives neglect, disrespect & dishonesty without a second thought & continues to love him as hopelessly and endlessly as she did from the start. & this unconditional love leads a man to believe that no matter what, his girl will be always be there.

But what you think will always be there can be snatched away from you & u'll be regretful for all things u didnt do or say. A man should never take his girl for granted, nor should he pass up a chance to show her how valued she is. For every time that he forgets how soft her skin feels against his, how sweet her kisses are, or how uplifting her words can be ... for every night he spends with a girl who means nothing to him & for every time he lets his phone go unanswered while she sits hopelessly at the other end ... another man will be there to pick up. And to notice. And to appreciate.

Maybe he'll simply push her hair off of her face & kiss her on her forehead. Maybe he'll make her feel more beautiful than you ever did. Or maybe his smile will simply make her heart melt.

& when he leans in to kiss her, she'll kiss back. & then she'll start to fall. & just like that, the girl you always sat on the backburner will become someone else's number one. & he'll tell her all the things you were too arrogant to say. he'll always answer her calls & talk her to sleep. & he'll never pass on a chance to tell her she's amazing. And after awhile, he'll take your place and u'll be nothing but a distant memory to her ... but she'll STILL be everything to u.

Leggings, Jeggings, Treggings, Jeans & Everything in Between!!

2009-08-05T10:23:00.000-07:00

FALL FASHION 101: The 'eggings'!!

Pictured above are 'treggings' (Trousers + Leggings)

Now, I must admit that this is a trend I LOVE ! I remember when leggings first popped onto the scene in 2006 underneath those horrible jean mini skirts. *sigh* How far we've come!

Last season ,we fell in love with the liquid leather look. Now they were fabulous but i must say that I am thrilled they are finally phasing out - everyone had a pair and looked exactly like everyone else. I think it's safe to say that the high shine version is unacceptable this fall. The matte ones are still in question. I'd say feel free to wear a pair that you already own but please - dont go purchasing new ones!

Now, until they come out with latex leggings in brown (they do not exist - i checked the entire web. Remember that you heard it here first!) There are tons of alternatives!! Keep an eye out for printed leggings (animal prints, geometric shapes, stripes, cutouts, etc).

As fall progresses, knit leggings will be huge too. And of course, the Jegging (jean leggings). These are God's gift to a set of great legs!!

Great places to find leggings, jeggings and treggings at recession friendly prices are Arden B, Aldo, Bebe, TopShop, and Forever 21!

Funky Fall Trends - Nail Polish 101

2009-08-05T09:46:00.000-07:00

Never can decide on the perfect nail polish?? DONT! Take as many as you'd like! God bless the retro 80's trend that reemerging summer/fall '09. Now a lot of the new styles I'm NOT feeling - but multicolor nail polish is definitely makin a splash!

Express your individuality with different nail color combos! Most people started with a single color swap on the ring finger of one hand and the pointer of the other, but now it's becoming more and more popular to randomize your color selections. Dont be afraid to go overboard!!

Make sure to use quality polishes (OPI, Essie, M2M, etc) to prevent chipping! Keep cuticles in check and nails perfectly filed and you can still look mature and classic - even with the most random color selections.

This is one super cute trend that I really hope sticks around for awhile :)

Rihanna Girl ... YOU LOOK DUMB!!

2009-08-05T09:16:00.001-07:00

Sooooo, courtesy of www.MTO.com I learned that Rihanna is asking for the courts to lift the restraining order against Chris Brown so that the two could begin dating again. *BLANK STARE*

NOW I am all for forgiving & forgetting ... But girl ... HE BEAT YO ASS! That was no small argument, if you remember, people. Shoes flying, fists flying, kickin' her out the car - it was a mess! Not to mention that she was lumped up like De La Hoya after the Mayweather fight!! YIKES.

Now we've all heard the saying: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me". If that fool beats her down a second time around, I cant even hold him responsible. Shame on you, Rihanna - you know damn well Oprah told you not to go back to him!!

What a poor example you are setting for young women out there. Now I can NEVER excuse a man for putting his hands on a woman & I totally had her back the first time around. And I will continue to think he's wrong the next time he does it to her. But I won't feel bad for you, girl cause it's starting to look like you're askin for it. A man will only push you as far as you let him. *SMH* I hope the girl knows what she's getting in to . . .

AIDS & THE DOWN LOW: WO/MEN GET UR FACTS STRAIGHT!

2009-08-04T21:23:00.000-07:00

THIS IS IMPORTANT, LADIES!!!!! PLEASE READ!!!

I read the most absurd post in a group today & I feel the need to CLARIFY for those of you who are so easily mislead. Please WATCH the short youtube video and read thuroughly, this is very relevent info!

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POST by Amanda Artis: [talking about AIDS/heterosexual transmission]

http://www.youtube.com/wat

ch?v=ISSm41HNQFk.

Please, gather ALL information before spreading misleading and detrimental information. Also, there is only a 0.1% chance of acquiring HIV through heterosexual (vaginal) sex with an HIV infected partner [Padian et al. (1996)] so if those wmen who claim that having sex with a brotha n the DL is the only possible way they contracted HIV, then they need to find out if they were afflicted with any of the 70+ factors known to cause false positive results. Please stop abusing our brothas with such divisive, false information.

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MY RESPONSE:

That video is ridiculous and misleading! I have been studying AIDS in minority women for the past two years and have attained statistics from REPUTABLE organizations (i.e., the CDC) that contradict the stats posted in that video.

IF 50% of the women afflicted with AIDS did, in fact, contract the disease thru IV drug use, that has been since the inception of AIDS in the early 80s. The downlow epidemic is a new phenomena, therefore the DRASTIC INCREASE of heterosexual transmission (seen since 2003) is directly related to black male homosexual activity.

AND AS FOR UR 'STATs': There is a 0.1% chance of contraction EVERY time that you have sex with that man! That is to say that if you have sex with him 10 times, the percentage increases to 10% and so forth.

The majority of women infected by down low men are in commited relationships and are having SEVERAL sexual encounters with these men, thereby increasing the risk. & that percentage DRASTICALLy increases if that down low brotha convinces that HETERO woman to have anal sex with him, as they so often do.

IN ADDITION: THat 0.1% stat is from 1996 ... there are strains of HIV in the past ELEVEN years that have mutated soooo drastically that that figure holds little or no relevance today. You should possibly update ur data and stop leading these poor women to believe that sex is safer than it actually is.

You may have figures but u need to work on the common sense aspect.

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PLEASE LADIES, kNO UR FACTS AND DONT PUT URSELF AT RISK!!!

HOW 2 READ MY BLOGS!!

2009-08-04T20:34:00.000-07:00

. . . . . WITH AN OPEN MIND . . . . .

lOl. I am often overly liberal, overly man hating, extremely controversial, a lil racist lol - but it's all in good fun! So Sit back, relax & enjoy the show :)

I'm starting off by posting a few throwback blogs until i get so up-2-par new ones . . . so read, laugh, relate & get to know where I'm comin from!

XOXO, Mimicita

Mims In Da Houuuussseeee!!

2009-08-04T20:15:00.000-07:00

Hey Everyone!! I hope you all find my blog in good health. :)

I wont bore you with details . . . i am not boring, I do not believe in being bored! So without further ado, here is the break down:

1. I am here to laugh, talk isht, spread cheer, make you smile, make u think, maybe even make ya cry!

2. I am here to entertain & NOT offend! If u take offense to any of my blogs, you have a complex.

3. Anything you need to know about me you can find in my 'Random Facts' blog . . . or for my tweethearts, you can find in my timeline!

Ok then?? OK! Moving right along . . .