Going through a messy breakup? Yep. It happens to the best of us. Fortunately tho, once we stop focusing on the losers who wronged us, we can start appreciating the real men who will take their place!
The following is a blog I wrote after a bad break up & meeting a guy who made him nothing more than a bad memory. Anyone who's experienced true heartache can relate!
LOVE at first sight only takes an instant. It may not be stable or secure like true love, but it's definitely enough to make a woman wanna look forward & not back. A woman is but so strong; she can only shed so many tears. Nearly every man has had a girl who gave him her all ... & he gave her heartache in return.
Men tend to get 'comfortable' & start messing up ... but through hell & high water a good woman will stick by her man. She forgives neglect, disrespect & dishonesty without a second thought & continues to love him as hopelessly and endlessly as she did from the start. & this unconditional love leads a man to believe that no matter what, his girl will be always be there.
But what you think will always be there can be snatched away from you & u'll be regretful for all things u didnt do or say. A man should never take his girl for granted, nor should he pass up a chance to show her how valued she is. For every time that he forgets how soft her skin feels against his, how sweet her kisses are, or how uplifting her words can be ... for every night he spends with a girl who means nothing to him & for every time he lets his phone go unanswered while she sits hopelessly at the other end ... another man will be there to pick up. And to notice. And to appreciate.
Maybe he'll simply push her hair off of her face & kiss her on her forehead. Maybe he'll make her feel more beautiful than you ever did. Or maybe his smile will simply make her heart melt.
& when he leans in to kiss her, she'll kiss back. & then she'll start to fall. & just like that, the girl you always sat on the backburner will become someone else's number one. & he'll tell her all the things you were too arrogant to say. he'll always answer her calls & talk her to sleep. & he'll never pass on a chance to tell her she's amazing. And after awhile, he'll take your place and u'll be nothing but a distant memory to her ... but she'll STILL be everything to u.
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